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Men’s and women’s breasts have similar potential

Until recently, scientists believed that a major difference between men’s and women’s breasts is that women’s breasts have lobules and milk ducts while male breasts do not have the capacity to develop these structures. (more…)

Whiskey Dick

It takes way more alcohol to keep a good dick down than was previously thought.

The latest research shows that having a blood alcohol level of .1 does NOT impact a guy’s ability to get an erection. That’s about four or five 12-ounce beers in 1 to 2 hours–which is more than enough to get a DUI, but not enough to get Whiskey Dick. (more…)

Yogurt doesn’t help with vaginal infections

Some of the most important residents inside a woman’s vagina are bacteria called Lactobacilli. They clasp onto the walls of the vagina to prevent harmful bacteria from attaching at these points. (more…)

More important than sex…

A partner can’t always tell

The Man-Thong Redefined?

From CandyMan Fashion via The Underwear Expert.

Is the first thrust the best?

Women who take our sex survey have often claimed there is something special about the first thrust during intercourse. Is this your experience? Have you discussed it with a partner?

Glad you asked…

Hump day in the woods!

Men’s body hair

Natural breasts lay down when a woman does

These women have very large breasts, but even smaller breasts do not come equipped with anti-gravitational devices.

Don’t forget the condoms

The Waistband Tuck

It’s usually the waistband of a man’s boxers or briefs, but if he’s wearing low-riding jeans or his penis is long, the waistband on his pants might do. (Image from me, just less clothes on Tumblr.)

Pinterest version of porn…

There is no “correct” way to masturbate!

Enjoy doing whatever works for you.

Based on 15,521 penises…

Average circumference is 4.5 inches. For the complete study from the British Journal of Urology, click here.

Kiss of the week!

It’s called FOREPLAY!

It’s Hump Day!

Steampunk Girls

You don’t need a big head to enjoy condoms with more headroom

Here are links to sampler packs of condoms with more headroom:

RipNRoll.com Headroom Sampler
Condom Country
All Condoms

Happy Valentine’s Day!

From Dr. Paul’s 70-minute talk for college students.

“Help! My boyfriend’s penis is too long!”

Dr. Paul, Help! My boyfriend’s penis is too long. Sometimes it really hurts when he is thrusting all of the way.

Whenever there’s pain during sex, I suggest you check with a gynecologist to make sure there’s nothing going on like endometriosis or even chronic constipation. That said…

What might be happening is the head of your BF’s penis is colliding with your cervix. This can feel like someone punched you in the stomach. Contrary to what people think, it’s not necessarily the biggest, baddest or longest penis that will cause this kind of problem. Sometimes it’s an average sized penis.

Hear Dr. Paul Speak at UC Santa Barbara Tues. Feb. 10, 7 pm

Dr. Paul will be speaking at UC Santa Barbara Tuesday, February 10, at 7 pm at Campbell Hall. Admission is FREE! Paul has spent more than 2,000 hours creating this 70-minute presentation.

Men’s nipples can enjoy being kissed, too

Bean sprouts and semen

Or why does semen smell like bean sprouts? Because both contain spermine, which is what gives them a bleach-like smell. The spermine in semen is made by the prostate gland.

Links for Condom Sampler Packs

Here’s the most extensive list of links for condoms you’ll ever find: (more…)

Don’t let the producers of porn own your imagination

If you don’t have a real-life lover to think about when you’re masturbating, try stroking it to a person or situation you create in your own mind. Otherwise, you’re just surrendering your imagination to the producers of porn.

To give a no-swallow blow job

Focus your lips on the frenulum, which is the most sensitive part of the penis, and it will feel like a regular blow job or close to it. Also, cup your fingers around the rest of the penis and keep it warm with your hot breath.

This also works well when a guy is on the huge side and it’s uncomfortable to get him in your mouth.

Pillows can be the best sex aids ever

For some women, this will help increase sensation. For others it won’t.

There are times when school or work come first

Image from the excellent DCFukIt website.

Vaginas don’t only get wet during sex

Our gynecology consultant says a lot of women with healthy vaginas believe they should only get wet when they are sexually aroused. This is not true.

If you are concerned about your vagina, be sure to see a healthcare provider. But also be aware that it’s perfectly normal for a woman’s vagina to get wet when she’s not thinking about sex.

For outer space–the latest technology. Between your legs, not so much.

Priorities are interesting…

Testicles raise up right before ejaculation

We have no idea why testicles raise up just before and during ejaculation. But for some reason, they do, and in some men, they raise up way more than in others.

It’s Wednesday!

Nipples can get hard from pain as well as pleasure

Don’t assume. Always ask.

Nature’s sex toy

Protect yourself and your partners!

HIV transmission can be high in these situations. And it’s through the roof when drugs are involved.

If you don’t know, ask!

And if she doesn’t know, try it different ways. Then you’ll learn together.

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